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This is … incredible
By turn hilarious and haunting, poet Shane Koyczan puts his finger on the pulse of what it's like to be young and … different.
I hid my heart under the bed because my mother said if your not careful someday someone's gonna break it. Take it from me, under the bed is not a good hiding spot. I know because I've been shot down so many times I get altitude sickness just from standing up for myself. But that's what we were told, stand up for yourself. That's hard to do if you don't know who you are. We are expected to define ourselves at such an early age, and if we didn't do it, others did it for us. Geek. Fatty. Slut. Fag.
And at the same time we were being told what we were, we were being asked, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” I always thought that was an unfair question. It presupposes that we can’t be what we already are. We were kids. … They asked me what I wanted to be then told me what not to be. … I was being told to accept the identity that others will give me.